Im not sure, but i feel like i can answer this question.
People with female brains focus more on feelings and emotion, Where as males focus less on feelings and more on what is in front of them. If you get a trans male, with a cis male in the same room, they will most likely think the same; and same for a trans woman and a cis woman.
I feel like male brains focus more on facts and statistics while female brains focus more on emotions and feelings. (Not saying all, but on average). Now im no psychologist, so i cant really answer that directly. But i feel like it has something to do with how male and female brains act.
(This also explains why most non-binary people are female assigned at birth, because they focus more on feelings)
But dont take my post as fact, this is just what i think the answer is.
You know… even when your completely run-of-the-mill 19th century sexism is trans-inclusive, it’s still bad.
Op you have somehow written the WORST post I have ever seen on this hellsite.
how do u even MANAGE to be this misogynistic AND transphobic
thats? not? transphobic? it might be generalizing but its certainly not sexist either
actually i’ve wondered that a lot too and op’s point is honestly not that bad of an explaination.
@scumosaurus@truscum-fuck certainly you can see why looping back to the misogynistic talking point of “women just have those silly emotional lady brains while men focus on the hard facts” might be sexist huh especially since there is ZERO science behind it and it’s actually just plainly y’all drinking the conservative cool-aid of toxic masculinity and misogyny
perhaps most truscum are men because the openly misogynistic and transmisogynistic parts of the community like to flock together and trans women don’t feel safe around y’all and your “well women just are too emotional to think logically also all of my opinions are automatically logical and women’s opinions are illogical and emotion based because i’m a man and women are too stupid to think rationally with their lady brains”
even funnier is that there have been no coherent ways to actually tell “”””brain sex”””” because it’s a bullshit concept…………..y’all are so eager to justify your misogyny that y’all don’t even bother to read the studies that first claim brain sex exist and then admit that there is barely ANY difference between the averages and most brains are indistinguishable re gender
as for the transphobia part of this the most glaringly this is transmisogynistic as fuck considering by positing afab nb people as “too emotional to tell their REAL gender” you’re also saying that trans women can’t tell their own gender, considering according to you they have the same Brain Sex, and second of all opening a whole can of worms for community policing for which binary trans men are secretly really just cis women whose confusing lady brains are just toooo emotional to realize they’re just cis women
this is also just fucking nonsense because many men cis and trans alike are more emotional than logical and tbh considering y’all are reactionaries, all of you, as transmedicalism is based entirely on fighting imaginary monsters and pretending things that have already been done (like, idk, transgender not being a medical diagnosis anymore, and hasn’t been since the last edition of the dsm) will SOON HAPPEN and it will KILL ALL TRANS PEOPLE and it will be because of the Trans Trenders. would argue there is nothing logical about this movement actually
this also loops back to misogyny by ignoring the large chunk that amab people make of nb people and tries to attribute the concept of nb genders to being just a silly womanly lady concept. so y’all think afab enbies are all secretly cis women and amab enbies are all secretly trans women or? actually don’t answer that bc ik that’s what y’all think.
y’all are a bunch of egalitarians and anti-feminists with tons of toxic masculinity to deal with and it’s exhausting annoying and a really good reason for why women in general don’t want to associate with you
I’m sorry but its literally a fact that women are naturally more caring its literally coded into their DNA, its part of maternal instinct
you are literally no different from any right wing misogynistic male politician
also so y’all think trans men are biologically female but have male dna???? do you know what dna is?????? did you pass seventh grade????
Torchwood team was so extra. They would show up places, get out of that nice, black SUV with Torchwood engraved on the side, walking in slow motion with their hair and Jack’s coat blowing in the wind, and say ‘we’re Torchwood’ and walk into crime scenes like they run everything.
Probably a hot take but I think people who seek readings (tarot, pendulum, runes, and other) need to stop requesting readings that involves a third person.
I didn’t realize when I opened my inbox for free readings how many requests I would get for “how does X feel about me?” And at first I wasn’t entirely bothered. It was part way through one of my more recent readings, as I pulled a card, that I felt a lurch of guilt in my stomach. It may have skewed my intuition and messed up my reading, but I didn’t care. I suddenly realized how… Invasive it is.
We, as people, don’t have any right to what is going on in someone’s head and attempting to do so with whatever method is invasive. We only have a right to our own actions and decisions. And divination techniques should be for just that – a tool to help guide our decisions, to help understand ourselves and understand the outcome of our own actions.
Next time you ask for a reading, don’t ask “Does X love me romantically?” but rather, “is there any advice you can offer me for guiding my relationship with X down a romantic path?”
Don’t ask “Does C feel the same way about me?” But instead, “how can I improve my relationship with C so that we may have a foundation built on mutual feelings?”
Instead of “Does my partner, M, want to marry me?” ask, “if I proposed, what is the most likely outcome?”
Of course, I will never police someone else’s way of doing readings, and this is just my own feelings and speculation. But either way I think it is important to at least consider how invasive it is to the (non consenting) person you are trying to read. Please don’t ask someone to read another person’s feelings for you unless they’ve said they’re okay with it (and most I’ve seen aren’t.)
How to hack any hospital computer (L337 version for advanced security systems)
-Use the password taped to the back of the monitor
As a computer guy: This is what happens when you have too much security. It reaches a tipping point and then suddenly you have none.
Security at the cost of convenience comes at the cost of security.
This is true of so many things in healthcare. Example: our software is designed to automatically alert the doctor if a patient’s vital signs are critically out of range. If someone has a blood pressure of 200/130, the doc gets a pop-up box that they have to acknowledge before doing anything else. It makes sense, in our setting.
But then some mega-genius upstairs realized something: the system was only alerting for critical vital signs, but not for all vital signs that could possibly be bad. Like, yeah, 200/130 is potentially life-threatening, but 130/90 is above ideal and can have negative effects on health. Should the doctors be allowed to just ignore something that could negatively affect a patient’s health? Heavens no!
So now the system generates a pop-up for any vital signs that are even slightly abnormal. A pressure of 120/80 (once considered textbook normal, now considered slightly high) will create the pop-up. We have increased our vigilance!
Well, no, what we’ve actually done is train doctors to click through a constant bombardment of pop-ups without looking. We’ve destroyed their vigilance and made it much easier for them to accidentally skim past life-threatening vital signs.
But you can’t tell that to management, because you’d have to confess that you are a flawed human with limited attention resources. They’d tell you “well, all the other doctors take every abnormal vital sign seriously, it sounds like you’re being negligent.” And if you’re smart, you back down before you start telling the big boss all about your habit of ignoring critical safety alerts.
The end result is exactly the same as if we had no alerts at all, except with more annoying clicking.
HEY so i was at the philly trans wellness conference yesterday which was amazing by itself.. if u live in the northeast US i highly recommend it.. but i’m here to talk about THESE
those are sticky breastforms. you just slap em on your chest and they stay there. they come in 100 different skin tones with custom nipple colors, too. (their site also has packers and similar stuff!)
the guy at the gendercat booth held one up, said “high five!”. my girlfriend proceeded to high five him, and the back of it stuck to her hand REALLY well. and when she took it off there was literally no residue!! her hand was totally dry!
the only thing is that these are pretty pricey at $279 but honestly.. look at those. if you can afford it or save up for it, that shit is worth it. i don’t think they currently have their payment plan working right now on their site but that is usually an option as well!
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