Tag: anonymous

the way that i’ve understood it is that because no homo was specifically directed against same gender attracted people, no hetero is taking something used against us and turning it on its head, whereas there are aro people who aren’t same gender attracted and thus it would be inappropriate for them to use it. i think most people who have talked about this dont have an issue with sga aro people using no romo

honestly as an sga aro this is such bullshit lmao
don’t hurt urself stretching so far :))))))

Why would you say whorephobia? Its a slur, and unless you are or were a sex workers, its not yours to reclaim. Wouldn’t it be better to say sex work shaming or something? Instead of calling sex workers oppression “whorephobia”? By saying “whorephobia” isn’t that calling whoever is experiencing sex work oppression a whore? Just wondering.

this is what i’m going off of

if you’re a sex worker(going by the wording on this ask it sounds like you’re not, but i could be wrong) and disagree w/ that post i’d be happy to apologize, but so far i haven’t heard from/of any SWs who feel it’s unacceptable for non-SWs to use it *in that specific context*

i.. can’t help but notice that you used it outside of that context, so i’m kind of unsure of if this is legit & you made a mistake, or if this is just an unusually civil attempt at baiting me

#w slur

Hi I’ve really adored your blog for a long time and now I’m wondering: How did you cope w your illness diagnosis? I’m 14 and I just started having serious heart troubles and I feel scared and alone ðŸ˜°

I assume u mean my physical illness? since I have a shit ton of mental ones and you’re referring to a physical problem,but please tell me if I assumed wrong though!
that out of the way, I’m not sure that I could be considered coping. I went to the doctor and they ruled out e coli, some sort of parasite, and (I think) a certain type of cancer, though it was a while ago so I might not be remembering that right.
I was supposed to come in again later to get some less likely things checked out, but I maturely and responsibly completely blew it off. I’ve identified some trigger foods(lactose, altho dairy in general isn’t that good, greasy stuff, red meat), and since my involuntary #weight loss has slowed from 5 pounds a week, I’m pretending like if I don’t acknowledge that I’m getting worryingly close to underweight then it’ll magically go away.

in other words, please do not follow the Cloud Cisphobeofficial Physical Illness Coping Method©.

I *was* born with a fairly serious heart problem, but I had surgery to fix it when I was five, so I don’t remember enough to be the best one to talk about heart issues.
I hope all goes well for you, nonny, and I’m glad you like my blog 💜
for better advice, though, I suggest @itrhymeswithalayne, and if any of my followers know anything that could help nonny(or just want to offer emotional support), please send me an ask! I’ll tag them with #for heart trouble anon