If ur still doing system questions, multiples of 7?

7. Are you open about being Multiple? Why or why not?

i’m 100% open about it online, but i’m only out to 1 person(possibly eight, i’m not sure how good his system’s communication is) offline

i didn’t actually plan it- we were texting and he made some comment about how if i knew how cr*zy he actually was, i’d probably run away screaming

me being me, i was like ‘lolno try me’ and then mutual openness yay

14. How many people know you’re multiple?

at least 354?? w00t followers

21. Do you attend therapy?

yep, every other week(depending on parental availability to give rides). being plural isn’t actually much of a problem, but trashbrain out the ass here soooo

28. Do you have drawings/Pictures of your alters? Can you show us?

indeed i do! #scopophobia

this is lynx isnt she cute ;D

#22 of the system questions!

22. How many close friends are also systems?

i’m not sure of the exact number, but i consider most/all mutuals who are systems to be close friends, i think the number is probably 7-15ish? and then 1 offline friend so probs 8-15

ty nonny! 😀

lol another entitled ignorant non-lesbian trying to steal our words. why do you people hate us so much? why won’t you let us have fucking ANYTHING? why are you so stupidly determined that ‘lesbian’ should include people who fuck men? honest to god, you sound just the shit who ‘correctively raped’ me. that’s what you fucking sound like.

I’m truly sorry you were raped, its a horrific experience and no one should have to go through that.
however, that does not give you the right to harass me on account of something that I have apologized several times for now.
This isn’t about getting a bigoted lesbophobe to apologize, this is just an excuse to harass and attack a bi teenager.

ah ok! i wont talk abt it or respond to things anymore i understand not wanting to start a whole discussion and drama and stuff

i don’t mind if you talk about, just don’t use my blog for it ^^ my issue is with the rock-and-a-hard-place situation i’m put in by that, but i’m totally cool if you wanna make a tag or something and put your responses to stuff in that!

im sorry you were harassed and jsyk my response to the ask you answered wasnt meant to be rude or anything ;v;

ty for the support & for clarifying

i’m kinda wary about even just publishing this kinda stuff without comment tho?

bc i tried to do that and stay totally neutral and i still got tons of shit for it so if somebody could make a blog and have this discussion elsewhere? it seems like something that might be rly productive to have a conversation about but if i publish something thats wrong w/out commentary then i’ll be responsible for posting that but if i publish it with commentary i’m butting in on a conversation that doesn’t directly concern me so like..

tldr; thank you & i appreciate that you didn’t mean to be rude.

however, having my blog be the platform for this discussion puts me in a really difficult position and i’d really appreciate it if everybody would make a blog or something and talk about who is and is not a lesbian there, not on mine

that sucks a lot that theyve got nothing better to do than harass u. tbh i think sometimes people need to take a breather and let some things go. u dont get a say in someones personal identity. if someone identifies as a certain sexuality or gender, u dont get to come up and test them. it’s not up to u to decide if an individual is Lesbian Enough, or a Real Lesbian. just chill. let people be for a while.

shit im that anon that said bi women with a strong pref for women can call themselves lesbians if they want to. im sorry for inviting wrath on ur blog. on the one hand i understand what ppl r sayin abt bi erasure but like. we’re talkin about individual identities here. if an individual is not homoromantic homosexual but feels like sayin “bisexual but with a strong preference for women but i dont mind men/non women” is a mouthful and would rather say lesbian, why the fuck not

nahhhh i was getting shit way earlier, they’re just using you as an excuse

ty tho ❤

BI LESBIAN

one fucking post that i already apologized for yesterday lmao

go harass someone who actually deserves it

Yes you can be a homoromantic bisexual but this is different to a lesbian

??? So you can only be a lesbian if its your sexual orientation??

There’s no such thing as a bi lesbian. If that anon is bi they aren’t a lesbian. End of. Lesbian as a label inherently precludes being attracted to men.

how is it that you all see these other people’s asks so well but never notice the “don’t make me host an inter-community discussion about who qualifies as a lesbian” things that i reply with