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im kinda. really happy i think?? seeing you talk abotu median stuff- because since i was a kid if always refered to myself when thinking to myself with ‘we’ instead or me or something more ah. nornal i guess. anyways whenever i think and have any train of thought, its always felt like im speaking to a large crowd of people in my head. and now im wondering if maybe that could be why. ve never really explore anyone them much, because i was too afraid too, but now i want to learn about this stuff

omg we’re so glad that we could help you out ❤

good luck friend!!

oh man this whole median thing is super cool and interesting and it makes me think about how possibly-fragmented i’ve become since i started referring to myself in third person, especially in concerns to my emotions 8O i want to learn more about it because i’m not sure if i am or am not and i dont’ think i have any emergent personalities hidden inside of me but i don’t know for sure, it’s all extremely confusing and muddled internally and i feel pretty fragmented about 80% of the time and bbbbbb

good luck figuring yourself/selves out, friend!

and yes, it is definitely very cool B)

For me, I had median system feelings since high school but I never talked abt them bc I just figured I was a freak tbh; Then recently someone else I follow came forward about being a median system and I decided to rly think about my personality and how fragmented it seems. I started talking about myself as if I was a median system and realised my alters are actually there with names and stuff! it was really cool and it made me feel a lot more comfortable with myself realise who we are c:

that’s great! We’re so glad it worked out well for you ❤ we’ve been a system since preteen years and we’re in high school now

we’re really lucky to have known a multiple system when we were young, that really helped us out later with understanding what was going on

How’d you guys realise you were a median system?

idk that it was a straight up one time realization- it was more a gradual noticing that the ‘other side of me’ was getting a little too independent to 100% qualify as me anymore, but that fae isn’t totally a separate person from me(cloud) either. To be completely honest, we weren’t sure until last night with me(lynx) getting a name and me getting to talk to people independently of cloud and yeah!!

Hiiiii! Hello friend! I’m a median system too! I’m just not out publicky as one because i’m afraid of ableists ahaha! I hope you’re having a nice time fronting!

we were too for a while!! it really sucked and i hope that if/when you decide to go public about it you have as good an experience as we did! 

i am! this is really fun and i can’t wait to see whether fronting for this long makes it easier for me to do it tomorrow or if i’m gonna be really tired and let cloud handle stuff for a while

good luck friend! ❤