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Tag: asks
the responses youre making are. youre still saying biromantic homosexuals and homoromantic bisexuals can call themselves lesbians and even if youre right youre still in the conversation…
okay yeah, that makes sense & i apologize for that.
anon’s still gonna keep harassing me though jsyk, she’s made it pretty clear she just wants to harass a bi, trans, disabled teenager
i wont say how i feel but you should maybe just stop talking about it? i mean they had a good point.. regardless of whos right this isnt really a conversation you should be in. lets let the bi/panromantic homosexuals and homoromantic bi/pansexuals fight this fight..
…i stopped talking about it hours ago though
i literally only made one post
at this point i’m just responding to anon who refuses to let up and stop being cissexist or apologize for calling me an ableist slur?
I never said transwomen are men. I am also referring to “but alice could def say she was a lesbian despite also being attracted to men” because no, if you have an attraction to men, you are NOT A LESBIAN. and yes, I know those aren’t *your* words, but you agree with them, so it makes no difference. if you have an attraction to men, you are not a lesbian, period. no amount of calling me cissexist will change that fact.
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I didn’t say penis = man, but the men who think lesbians really do like men do, and feel that all we need is their magical dick to cure is of out icky lesbianism. But you’d know that if you actually knew anything about lesbian oppression (which is also why you have no place speaking on lesbian issues)
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I mean, you asked me if it’d be too much to ask for me to not be such a biphobe, but it’s blatantly obvious you couldn’t be less of a lesbophobe if you tried. You seriously need to take the time to examine why it is SO important to you that lesbianism include attraction to men before you point all the fingers at me. Don’t act like your hands are clean.
you literally think that transgender women are men pls go throw yourself in the trash ASAP
also? i never actually said anything about men
a woman who is, say, homoromantic bisexual might be sexually attracted to nonbinary people and other women but not men lmao
and i would generally call the above person a lesbian in regards to her romantic orientation????? not her sexual one???? bc she would be romantically attracted only to other women???? like these people exist and you so obviously hate them why the hell are you like this
You do know the idea that lesbians really are attracted to men(and just need a good dicking)is violent lesbophobia right? Saying bi women can call themselves lesbians even when they’re attracted to men perpetuated that, and puts us in danger. No, even if you’re primarily attracted to women you’re still not a lesbian. Lesbians aren’t women ~primarily~ attracted to women, we are exclusively attracted to them. To change the definition of lesbian to include attractions to men is blatant lesbophobia.
penis = man?
cissexism has escalated to transmisogyny, i repeat, cissexism has escalated to transmisogyny.
we have now achieved peak cisbian
it is the really antisemitic one, apparently being jewish means +25 point s of privilege. wow, i didn’t realize that people murdering us for our ethnicity was a privilege *sarcasm*
#antisemitism
And speaking over lesbians again. You just don’t know how to stay out of conversations about who is and isn’t a lesbian do you?
Oh, but here it is “women who experience same gender attraction but also other gender attraction” lesbians are not “other gender attracted”. Lesbian is a female homosexual, just as “gay” is a male homosexual. (Asexuals included) Defining lesbianism as exclusive to females who are attracted to females is no more biphobic than saying a man can’t be a lesbian is sexist. Words mean things. A bi person is not a lesbian, they are bi. You cannot be both.
romantic orientation =/= sexual orientation
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