Tag: asks

Oh honey, I have never followed you. Don’t flatter yourself. But notice, you’re saying I’m being biphobic against bi people, not biphobic against lesbians. Hm, could it be that you also know they’re not lesbians? I have a great love for all women who love women, but “lesbian” is a word that means something. Not everyone who likes women is a lesbian, and that’s ok. Calling non-lesbians lesbians however, puts me in harms way, and I’d rather your feelings be hurt then me in a hospital or the ground

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Yea, cause by definition a woman who has attractions to those who aren’t women aren’t lesbians. Are you going to tell me saying a bi man can’t be a lesbian is biphobic too? I mean, how can I know where the line is? According to you ~anyone~ with an attraction to ladies is a lesbian right? so why not men? And oh so sorry I didn’t feel like tying up every sexual orientation a biromantic can be to make my point, cause it’s not like there isn’t a ton of combinations. ~so problematic~ amirite?

yknow what

i don’t fucking care

go on with your strawmanning and biphobia and ableism i don’t fucking care about you 

i might publish to let people see your bullshit but this is the last response you’re getting

Wait what are yawl arguing about cuz I am confused. Whether or not bi ppl can use the d-slur??? I personally think that anyone who identifies as a woman even partially or sometimes and is attracted to women should be allowed to use the d-slur even if they are bi. But idk I could be wrong and as a bi nonbinary person who is sometimes a woman I don’t want to speak over lesbians.

idk i said that women who are homo- in one orientation and bi/pan/etc in another [ex. homoromantic bisexual] can still be lesbians and now i’m a moronic lesbian hater idek 

“my SO is bi i cant be biphobic” and double standards for bi women and ableist slurs and cissexism and jesus christ it’s the whole nine yards 

what the hell is up with non-bi people why do they hate us so much

You’re a moron. Go reread my message. I didn’t say aro/ace are the only differing orientations to EXIST, I said they were the only ones that FALL UNDER THE LESBIAN CATEGORY. YES, biromantic whateversexuals exist, but they’re not lesbians. I never said they weren’t a thing. How clear do you need me to make this?

soooo biromantic homosexual women can’t be lesbians but aromantic homosexual women can? totes not biphobic lmao

calling an autistic person a moron oooooo nice ableism asshole

“whateversexuals” feelin the respect n love for bi people rn

Oh gee, now you suddenly feel it’s not your place to speak over us when you find someone to agree with you who can? (Assuming you didn’t send it to yourself) Your hatred and disrespect of lesbians couldn’t be more obvious. And saying a bi person isn’t a lesbian is not biphobic. And whether you believe it or not, I’ve been with my girlfriend, who is bi, for 3 years now. Doesn’t suddenly make her a lesbian though, and saying that doesn’t mean I hate her.

jesus christ i agreed because /you/ pointed out that i am contributing to non-lesbians speaking over lesbians

i’ve literally never sent anon to myself lmao and there are homoromantic bisexuals and biromantic homosexuals who exist & only acknowledging that aces and aros can have differing sexual/romantic orientations is biphobic as fuck like define lesbianness how you want but you clearly don’t want to be associated with the icky digusting bi people 

 i am fucking bisexual and you are being biphobic and having a bi girlfriend does not magically mean you get to speak over bi people fuck you fuck you fuck you

You’re right, they don’t. But “lesbian” ONLY cover homoromantic homosexuals, homoromantic asexuals, and aromantic homosexuals. Even if I were wrong, I AM A LESBIAN. you are not. You have no dog in this fight and it is not your place to speak over us. You ARE over stepping regardless of who’s right or wrong, because you are a non-lesbian speaking for and over lesbians in defining who is and isn’t a lesbian. Get back in your lane.

k, i will. 

i don’t suppose it’s too much to ask for you to stop being biphobic oh who am i kidding of course it is?

re post abt reclaiming lesbophobic slurs: i’m a lesbian and tbh dont like it when anybody does it, but i think if you’re gonna do it then lesbian should be your primary identity. like if you’re ace lesbian but you consider yourself ace primarily, then maybe don’t do it. if you’re bi lesbian but primarily attracted to men/non-women esp if you’re in a relationship w a man/non-woman or don’t self identify as a lesbian in addition to bi, dont do it. not that that’s The Law, but thats what i think